There are some great teachers in this world that instill a
thirst for learning in their students. Kids enjoy going to school and can tell
their teacher is passionate about the curriculum and wants them to learn the
material.
Unfortunately there are also a few arrogant teachers that
want you to memorize what they give you and nothing outside that classroom is
important.
Bad teachers do not want to be proven wrong. You do it their
way and no other will work.
My second child is a free thinker like myself and doesn’t
take anyone’s word for anything. He also doesn’t like it when someone gives him
inaccurate information and expects him to believe it.
When he was in kindergarten his teacher passed out work
sheets of marigold flowers and told them to color them yellow.
My son quietly colored his red, orange, yellow and
variations of those colors. He’s always been very artistic and his coloring
skills were above average for his age. I know, coloring isn’t part of the basic
three R’s, but still.
She took his paper away and told him he didn’t follow
directions properly, marigolds are yellow and he was supposed to color them
only yellow.
He told her that marigolds are not just yellow, but also
orange, red and some are even variegated. Nothing doing, she gave him an F or
more than likely a U because in kindergarten you got Unsatisfactory for failed
papers.
The next day he brought her flowers from our garden. At first she thought he was trying to butter her up for the bad grade but soon realized he was proving
her wrong. Marigolds were not just yellow but all those other colors he
mentioned. I think she would have been happier if he were trying to charm her with a bouquet.
She wrote a note and pinned it to his shirt. When your child gets off the bus with a note attached to
their shirt you know it’s usually not good news; so was the case this day.
Mrs. Cranky wanted a conference to discuss my son’s attitude
and uncooperative behavior.
She begins to tell me how he argues with her during class
and won’t sit quietly listening.
I can’t remember the other incidents but they were similar
to the marigold situation and in those cases he was also right.
I said, “Marigolds aren’t only yellow. He was coloring them
the way he sees them at home.”
“Yes, but I told him to color them yellow.”
“I understand but he assumed you didn’t know that marigolds
come in many colors and he was trying to teach you.”
“I am the teacher. I am the only one that teaches in this
class.”
I want to add that my son did not yell at the teacher, call
names or in anyway become belligerent. He simply did what we do here at home
all the time and that is communicating our views and opinions. My children were
not raised to simply obey and not question. If my husband or I are wrong we
admit it.
The problem with complaining to the principal about this
particular teacher is that he was her husband so it did no good. It was common
knowledge that she ran the school from the kindergarten classroom. In fact, she
needed an aid so she could leave the room to attend any important meetings
because she was the Hilary Clinton of the school if you know what I mean.
Too many schools want lemmings; they do not want children
that think for themselves or question their teaching. You sit down; be quiet
and listen. Those sleeping in the back are fine because they aren’t making any
sound, aren’t defying the teacher’s claims or making them look inept. Having
the appearance of inadequacy is a very bad thing to this type of teacher.
Bad teachers would prefer children that aren’t learning
anything to ones who have an opinion.
Again, I want to add that not all teachers are like that.
Over the years my kids have had some wonderful teachers. My daughter has a
history teacher right now she loves.
She actually has two history teachers; one is a coach and
isn’t really teaching. He spends all hour, or block in this case which is
longer than an hour, talking to the guys about sports. Try reading a textbook
and working on an assignment when a bunch of bulked up jocks are hooting and
hollering about balls. Can you tell I hate sports? This is partly why.
Coaches should never be teachers. I have yet to see one that
even wants to be a teacher. They got a degree in whatever subject they thought
would be the easiest to get through so they could spend the rest of their lives
playing ball, talking about sports and watching sports. That’s it. They really
don’t care if your kids learn anything in their class but if your son is a ball
player you can bet he’ll get a good grade because otherwise he can’t remain on
the team and we all know sports is more important than academics at least in
the southern states.
Teachers that really want to teach history, math, psychology
or whatever, often have a hard time getting a job because some ball tosser was
needed to coach their team. So our kids suffer, aren’t learning anything that
hour, hour and a half because some moron warms a chair talking about sports
instead of the history of our country.
I’ll step down off my soapbox now.
